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          Pre-marital counseling sessions...

 

 

Pre-Marital Counseling Service

 

The goal of the Pre-marital counseling sessions is:

 

©       To explore Relationship Strengths and Growth Areas

©       To learn Assertiveness and Active Listening skills

©       To learn how to resolve conflict using the Ten Step Model

©       To help the couple discuss their Family-of-Origin

©       To help the couple with financial planning and budget

©       To focus on personal, couple and family goals

 

The areas we will assess for the Couples are:

©       Communication

©       Conflict Resolution

©       Personality Issues

©       Financial Management

©       Marital Satisfaction

©       Leisure Activities

©       Spiritual Beliefs

©       Children and Parenting

©       Family and Friends

©       Realistic Expectations

©       Sexual Expectations

©       Cohabitation Issues

©       Idealistic Distortion

©       Role Relationship

 

We recommend  that you attend and commit to (4) sessions. Each session will last from between (1) one hour to (1 ½) One and half hour.

 

At the end of the sessions, you will receive a Certificate of Completion.

 

The cost of counseling is $65.00 per hour

 

Discounts are given when we officiate at your wedding.

 

For more information, send a email to Rev. Lula Carter.

          

 

The Tremendous Joy of Connecting...

  • Marriage can be an oasis of acceptance and appreciation. For everyone who wants to be understood, here's a simple but effective tool to bring insight and closeness to your relationships.
  • Four Danger Signs...

Research has revealed the top reasons that marriages are weakened or even destroyed. Learn about the four key risk factors and the steps you can take to eliminate all these kinds of danger signs from your relationship.

  • Viva La Difference!

Gain fresh insights into why men and women see life so differently. You'll leave with a whole new appreciation for who you are--and whom you love.

  • Enjoy the Good Times...

More than "Don't worry, Be Happy", learn the secrets of keeping busyness from crowding out the fun in your marriage.

  • No Matter What!

All of us need to improve our skills when it comes to loving the most important people in our lives. This workshop is your chance to learn the insights and skills to help you enjoy your marriage no matter where you are today or what tomorrow may bring.

If none of these options sound very appealing you should, at the very least, have sincere discussions regarding the following:

  • Personal Attitudes
  • Ambitions and Goals
  • Religion
  • Communication
  • Friends and Recreation
  • Finances
  • Residence
  • Health
  • Sexual Relations
  • Child rearing
  • Relationships with Parents
  • Relationships with In-laws

The expectations you have of one another may prove to be the undoing of your marriage if you do not take preventative measures. Make sure you both understand, and agree with, the expectations and needs of one another. If it is truly "death ‘til you part" you will both want all (or at least most) of those days to be happy ones.


 

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